Girlfriend Chat Of The Day: 5 Ways To Keep Your Girl In Love!

girlfriend chatToday, I wanted to make it light! Lately, the news been saturated with feuding politicians, senseless actions of violence, and deaths of icons……so we need some entertainment and laughter! What else can get us going like talking about the mushy, sweet side of love! So, today I will countdown five ways to keep your sweet one right in the gooey warmth of romantic love.

5. Surprise Her!
This does not have to be extravagant if you are lacking the funds. It doesn’t take all of that, surprise her with a hot, bubble bath after she gets home from work. All day your woman plays superhero by working, only to come home to tend to doing homework with the children; preparing a balance meal; and the daunting task of preparing everyone for the next day. Or you can give her a ten minute, nonstop foot massage once she finally get off her feet. The point is, everyone loves a little spontaneity every now and again. It gets boring sticking to a humdrum routine; give her something to look forward.

4. Listen to Her!
This seems easy, but it’s not. By nature, it is easy to get so involve in your own tasks that we forget to check in on our lovers. Sometimes just to sit down with them without interruption (And the GOTDARN cell phone) can bring you so much closer. Imagine this………………………….
After, a hard day coming home drained from the pressures of everyday life and work; your partner grabs your hand, led you to the couch, stroke your hand, and ask you to describe your day. This would make you feel like a priority as your partner stop their whole world, just to hear you speak about your own. SOUNDS AMAZING…………..RIGHT? Of course it does, so carve sometime every other day to sit and intensely listen to your partner without interruption. This shows you care about them.
3. Don’t Slack On The One-On- One Fun!

We all know what this means, but I will say it………………………….Make sure you are licking, sucking, caressing, and catering to your partner’s physical needs! I know many think they have it under control in that department………you DO NOT. We all need to release the animalistic instinct within us, so make sure you are making time to have intimacy. Get creative with it. Role play, dress up, seductive dancing, eye gazing, dirty talk…………..all of those things can get it going! If you are shy, start with dirty and raunchy text messages throughout the day. By time your love comes home……………..she will be ready to pounce!

2. You Must Make Her Feel Wanted!
Everyone wants to be wanted. A woman has a stride in her step when she knows that she has a partner who is all about her! She feels like the most beautiful girl in the world, not because she necessarily is a piece of art; but because you make her feel as such. She knows that you admire her beauty by staring at times that are not obvious; texting her randomly out of the blue just to tell her she is soooooooooo fine and you going to tear that ass up when you get home; and whispering sweet nothings in her ear causing that seductive twinge in the back of her neck. You have to be her number fan and cheerleader. If she feels safe, wanted, and beautiful……………….she will go to the end of the earth and back for you.

1 A Higher Being Is Necessary!

Now, I won’t get all DEEP on you; but having a moral compass always guides a couple in the right direction. When you are rooted in a foundation of spirituality, it holds you to a certain standard. Even, if you mess up; your better judgment will always led you back to the love that you both started with. I find being accountable to Christ and following his examples with love and service; always help me to treat my partner with compassion and respect. I won’t preach to you, I just want to highlight the importance of being guided by God.

Nick Gordon Resurfaces to Speak His Truth On The Deaths Of Whitney Houston & Bobbi Kristina (Shocking New Details/VIDEO)

ncikphil“I did not protect her the way that I was supposed to – even if it was from herself.” That was in his very own words. Nick Gordon has publicly resurfaced giving an interview to Daily Mail on Wednesday, April 27, 2016 and a second televised interview with Dr. Phil on Thursday. The 26 year old recovering addict spilled some tea on his account on what happened the night the music stopped for Whitney Houston and her beloved daughter, Bobbi Kristina. bobbiwhitney

Firstly, he admitted the night before Whitney died (affectionately called Nippy or Nip); she actually pulled her daughter out of an overflowing tub in the same hotel. Bobbi Kristina fell into a drunken sleep while in the tub. Her mother pulled her out and slept in her bed with Bobbi that night. Sadly, and eerily similar; Whitney died the night after.
Secondly, Nick admitted that their drug use intensified after Whitney’s death. That was how the two numb themselves to deal with the pain. He also admitted that the two had a fight about his alleged cheating with another woman. He left to hang out with friends and returned to the house around 4 am. He said he seen bottles of wine and insists that Krissy was already pretty “messed up”. He claims they made up and when upstairs to do what adults do, implying they had intercourse. The story gets kind of shaky because he proceeds to say he went to play video games while Krissy did her own thing; getting dressed. He said the cable man came in the home to check a roommate’s cable box and when Nick went to check on Krissy, he takes notice that she was not answering his calls. He went into the bathroom to find Krissy face down in the water. He then, tried to administer CPR and he was hopeful because she spit water up. Sadly, she never regained consciousness. He couldn’t save her and Whitney was not there to pull her baby out the water once more.
Thirdly, he confirmed that Krissy was indeed pregnant twice and the couple suffered two miscarriages. That is another sad similarity she shared with her mother. The ironic part is that Whitney tried so hard to save her baby girl from her same realities and her worst fears happened. We will never understand why Whitney had to die that way, but she was spared seeing her daughter’s demise. bobbinickwhit

I read this interview and view promotional clips from the Dr. Phil Show with my mouth wide open. It was not that I was surprised at any of the information. I felt extremely grieved to watch this infantile, broken man hurt over not being able to save two drug addicts; he couldn’t even save himself. He was just as dependent on the drugs and alcohol. How the hell does three people fighting the same demons, save one another? Why as the adult in the situation, was Whitney able to lead by example the importance of staying drug free? Where was Bobby Brown or any other help? This story is just as tragic as where we left it and will always be. I pray Whitney and Bobbi are at peace. I pray that Nick will be strong enough to stay sober and strive with the second chance he received; because he was the only one that survived the storm. Do you think Nick will save himself? Do you think Nick did this interview to get empathic in regards to his ten million law suit that Bobby Brown has against him?
Personally, I don’t blame this young man for Bobbi Kristina’s death. Similar to what I said before; these were two young people living fast and hard. Actually, the same way Whitney lived with Bobby; unfortunately their demons won.

Angela Simmons Confirms Engagement…….But To Whom?!

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The 28 year old, virgin daughter of Rev. Run is ready to give up the cookies……….I really meant to wed!
Angela posted a short little video of her hand with the gigantic ring on her finger and the caption says, “YES!! I couldn’t be more excited. This is only something I could of only dreamed of. I’m over the moon and feeling so blessed to be able to share my life with the one I truly love. Everything happened in the most perfect way.”
Angela has managed to keep her mystery guy out of the spotlight for a whole year now and has everyone on a manhunt! Several sources have a few top picks and they are;
1. Bossip is reporting a35-year-old Atlanta native named Sutton Tennyson who currently lives in L.A. Only thing about this young man is that he has a shady past and the internet have caught wind of a mug shot……..I don’t think Rev. Run would let this fly. He is not giving away his virgin princess to the con artist. Let’s move on! angela mugshot
2. New York Giants running back Rashad Jennings. The two were spotted at a fashion event just a couple of weeks ago, but kept it super chill in pics. Now this one is more like it! Young, black, professional, rich……need I go on! Now papa Run will be happy to marry his princess to this prince charming! angela and rashad

Well, Congrats are in order! I’m pretty sure her team is waiting for the Season 2 premiere of Growing up Hip Hop to reveal her mystery man!


My Thoughts on Beyonce’s Lemonade……….It’s Sweet, The Finger Licking Kind!

blemonYou know you that bitch when you cause all this conversation………….Beyonce couldn’t have summed it up any more precise than that! While others are going crazy of Beyonce disclosing some of her marital woes, I am enjoying the artistry as this musical genius takes us through the nine stages of grief. I watched vehemently as this wounded wife heals over her husband’s infidelity. I watched in an emotional frenzy as her husband laid at her mercy on the song Sandcastles. This is a couple who has kept their personal lives private, so for them to disclose such a difficult time; seemed humble. So, the big question is…………….will they divorce?! Read my words carefully…………………………HELL NO. If I could bet on it, this probably happened years ago and they have chosen to bare themselves vulnerable only AFTER the storm.
Before I let this go, I have to say the poetry in this visual album was raw perfection. You saw her soul shatter into a million pieces over her husband’s dishonesty and betrayal. I appreciated her articulating her pain and she has truly turned it into a triumph. I was actually cheering them on towards the end because you sense their will to keep one another. I have never been a part of the beehive; I am a proud bee now!
FYI: Shoutout to JayZ, tears filled my eyes when he appears a broken man, wholeheartedly trying to right his wrongs.

Blacc Chyna And Robert Pregnant & Has Kim Kardashian Blessing?!

robchynakimTalk about a whirlwind! Robert Kardashian has managed to court, marry, and knock up Blacc Chyna in three months! While our heads are spinning, the couple was escorted to the OBGYN by aunty Kim Kardashian…………….this makes for great reality television and we all will have a front seat soon enough! Nothing have been confirmed, we only have pictures of the threesome at Kim’s doctor office. I must admit, this is going to be the most anticipated season of Keeping Up With The Kardashians! We will probably see Khloe fret over filing divorce papers with Lamar for the 100th time; watch Kourtney pretend she doesn’t live Scott; Kris marry her boy toy; and watch Blacc Chyna become best friends with her arch enemy……….Kylie (I have pictures of the two hashing it out).

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Hell, we might even see Chyna and Tyga hug it out! We must follow the Kardashian Kraziness!
FYI: If she is indeed pregnant, this would be the first grandchild who will actually carry the Kardashian name…..Kris is looking for ways to cash in on this one!


princeI wanted to start this post with a funny, little anecdote about my first impression of Prince. I was eight years old and I remember asking my aunt; who is this pretty man with hair on his chest on this album (A time where we still played the black, round records!). At that tender age, I did not know what androgyny meant and could not appreciate the genius that was PRINCE!
Despite my light memory, it is still with tons of heaviness that I report the truth. Prince, the iconic singer-songwriter and seven-time Grammy winner, has died at home, his publicist confirms to the Associated Press.

The “Purple Rain” singer’s body was found at his Paisley Park compound in his elevator. The police report says, he was pronounced dead 25 minutes after responders got to his home.

Prince had been battling the flu for several weeks, and his private plane made an emergency landing early Friday morning to rush the singer to the hospital, his rep confirmed to PEOPLE at the time. Prince was able to attend a concert the day after, evening telling his fans that he was okay. So, this is why it comes at a complete shock, to hear of his demise. Now, the world is waiting for the results of his autopsy. Nothing will take the sting away, music lovers are force to say goodbye to a legend all too soon.
Enjoy his work!

WWE Wrestler Chyna Dead at 46 (VIDEO)

chynaFormer WWE fight, Joan Marie “Chyna” Laurer has been found dead at her Redondo Beach, California, home. Police told the Associated Press she was 46, though several other outlets, including the New York Times, reported her age as 45.
Her death was confirmed via her Twitter page late on Wednesday, April 20, with the message: “It is with deep sadness to inform you today that we lost a true icon, a real life superhero. She will live forever in the memories of her millions of fans and all of us that loved her.”

US Weekly magazine reported that the Redondo Beach Police received a 911 call from a friend of the apartment unit resident that the female inside was not breathing,” the police department said in a statement. “The friend told Redondo Beach Police that the female had not answered her phone in a few days, and went to the location to check on her welfare.”
Chyna, real name Joan Marie Laurer, was a massive name in World Wrestling Entertainment in the ’90s. She was a member of the D-Generation X wrestling squad, and was the Women’s Champion until she was released by WWE in 2001.
After leaving the WWE in 2001, Chyna posed for Playboy and appeared in adult films and on reality TV, including the shows The Surreal Life and Celebrity Rehab With Dr. Drew.
It was also reported that the former wrestler was in the process of filming a documentary and was in a whirlwind of emotions. I could imagine having to relive the highs and lows of your life, maybe reflecting more towards the lows. The former wrestler had issues with alcohol and did porn a decade ago. My prayer is for the people who loved her to be comforted at this time.

Rob Kardashian Gifts Blacc Chyna With A Luxury Car?!

robchynaPlease excuse my messiness with this story, but I’m coming for the Kardashians (I secretly love them)! Blac Chyna, NO…………..Angela Kardashian has come up and doing more than keeping up with this famous clan. Chyna has come a long way from her stripper days and being the baby momma of rapper Tyga (who is the boyfriend to Rob’s little sister Kylie Jenner, 18! Mine you, Tyga been hitting it since she was 16, ol nasty ass). Let’s get back to the story!

Rob Kardashian has gifted his fiancée with a purple Lamborghini. She captions the Instagram flexing with:
“Thank you baby for my Huracan Lamborghini @robkardashian 😈,” Chyna, 27, wrote alongside the snapshot of herself and Kardashian, 29, proudly standing next to the luxury vehicle — which is worth upward of a whopping $199,800.

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This comes 10 months after Tyga (Chyna’s ex and father to her 3-year-old son, King Cairo) gave his girlfriend Kylie Jenner, a white Ferrari for her 18th birthday last August.

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At the time, Tyga, 26, seemingly flaunted his generosity toward the youngest member of the Kardashian-Jenner clan in Chyna’s face by writing on Instagram: “#WhereYoFerarriTho?”
Chyna’s BFF, Amber Rose, quickly came to the Lashed Bar entrepreneur’s defense. Shortly after the “Rack City” rapper took aim at Chyna, Rose, 32, fired back by posting a picture of her pink Ferrari accompanied by a sassy caption. “She don’t need a Ferrari she can Drive mine #BFF,” the How to Be a Bad Bitchauthor wrote alongside the snap.
But now that she has keys to her own set of sexy wheels, Chyna can finally have the last laugh.
Kardashian and Chyna first went public with their relationship in January, which insiders told Us Weekly upset the Kardashian-Jenner family. News of the couple’s engagement broke on April 5, after Kardashian proposed to the former stripper with a custom 7-carat diamond ring designed by celebrity jeweler Ben Baller.
A 7 carat ring and luxury car…….I sure hope Chyna is not playing game and this is some sick pay back to Tyga and Kylie. That would put poor Rob in the crazy house!

The First Glimpse of John Legend & Chrissy Teigen’s Babygirl, Luna Simone!

chrissycoverJohn Legend and his beautiful wife Chrissy Teigen welcomed Luna Simone on last Thursday, but we got our first glimpse of the angelic glory today! Take a look!


I am pretty sure we can expect more Luna updates in the future, as the new mom previously told PEOPLE that she and Legend aren’t hesitant about what to share when it comes to social media.
“I am conscious of what people want to see and what they don’t want to see, or what they see through completely,” she shared with PEOPLE exclusively in March while chatting about her book Cravings.
“We’re not going to go out of our way to hide because obviously it’s such a big part of our lives to show everything: the inside of our homes, my parents living with us, our animals, everything,” the then-pregnant star said of the couple’s social media strategy. “I’m not going to do sneaky back shots of her or anything.”
Congrats to the happy couple! They make marriage and family look grand!