Today, I wanted to make it light! Lately, the news been saturated with feuding politicians, senseless actions of violence, and deaths of icons……so we need some entertainment and laughter! What else can get us going like talking about the mushy, sweet side of love! So, today I will countdown five ways to keep your sweet one right in the gooey warmth of romantic love.
5. Surprise Her!
This does not have to be extravagant if you are lacking the funds. It doesn’t take all of that, surprise her with a hot, bubble bath after she gets home from work. All day your woman plays superhero by working, only to come home to tend to doing homework with the children; preparing a balance meal; and the daunting task of preparing everyone for the next day. Or you can give her a ten minute, nonstop foot massage once she finally get off her feet. The point is, everyone loves a little spontaneity every now and again. It gets boring sticking to a humdrum routine; give her something to look forward.
4. Listen to Her!
This seems easy, but it’s not. By nature, it is easy to get so involve in your own tasks that we forget to check in on our lovers. Sometimes just to sit down with them without interruption (And the GOTDARN cell phone) can bring you so much closer. Imagine this………………………….
After, a hard day coming home drained from the pressures of everyday life and work; your partner grabs your hand, led you to the couch, stroke your hand, and ask you to describe your day. This would make you feel like a priority as your partner stop their whole world, just to hear you speak about your own. SOUNDS AMAZING…………..RIGHT? Of course it does, so carve sometime every other day to sit and intensely listen to your partner without interruption. This shows you care about them.
3. Don’t Slack On The One-On- One Fun!
We all know what this means, but I will say it………………………….Make sure you are licking, sucking, caressing, and catering to your partner’s physical needs! I know many think they have it under control in that department………you DO NOT. We all need to release the animalistic instinct within us, so make sure you are making time to have intimacy. Get creative with it. Role play, dress up, seductive dancing, eye gazing, dirty talk…………..all of those things can get it going! If you are shy, start with dirty and raunchy text messages throughout the day. By time your love comes home……………..she will be ready to pounce!
2. You Must Make Her Feel Wanted!
Everyone wants to be wanted. A woman has a stride in her step when she knows that she has a partner who is all about her! She feels like the most beautiful girl in the world, not because she necessarily is a piece of art; but because you make her feel as such. She knows that you admire her beauty by staring at times that are not obvious; texting her randomly out of the blue just to tell her she is soooooooooo fine and you going to tear that ass up when you get home; and whispering sweet nothings in her ear causing that seductive twinge in the back of her neck. You have to be her number fan and cheerleader. If she feels safe, wanted, and beautiful……………….she will go to the end of the earth and back for you.
1 A Higher Being Is Necessary!
Now, I won’t get all DEEP on you; but having a moral compass always guides a couple in the right direction. When you are rooted in a foundation of spirituality, it holds you to a certain standard. Even, if you mess up; your better judgment will always led you back to the love that you both started with. I find being accountable to Christ and following his examples with love and service; always help me to treat my partner with compassion and respect. I won’t preach to you, I just want to highlight the importance of being guided by God.